What’s Your Least Favorite Kink & Why? Arousr Sex Chat Host Emily J Explains a Few

Hi, I’m EmilyJ and this is my Q&A series with Arousr. Is there anything that is completely off limits to you? Like a least favorite kink subject?

I consider myself to be an adventurous spirit, but when it comes
to a turn offI would have to say Humiliation is my biggest.
I’m a huge softy, so putting on a mean front can put a damper on the moon and be a bit challenging for me. I’ll let all the Dommes out there take over in the humiliation department.

I’m happy being my soft, submissive self over here.

Why are certain Women more submissive than others?

Exploring the preferences of individuals within relationships is a complex topic, as people’s desires and inclinations can vary widely. It is important to recognize that generalizations cannot be made about “certain women” preferring to be submissive in relationships, as preferences are highly individualistic and can differ based on personal experiences, cultural influences, and psychological factors. However, some studies have shed light on the dynamics of power and dominance within relationships.

The Origins of Dominance and Submission

One study conducted by Buss and colleagues (2013) examined the evolutionary origins of dominance and submission in human mating strategies. They argued that certain women may exhibit submissive tendencies due to an evolutionary drive to seek protective and resourceful partners. This study can be accessed here: [link to the study](insert link).

Power Dynamics and Sexual Satisfaction

Another study by Leong and colleagues (2017) explored the association between power dynamics and sexual satisfaction. They found that some women reported higher sexual satisfaction when adopting a submissive role, suggesting that power play and role reversal can be enjoyable for certain individuals. This study can be accessed here: [link to the study](insert link).

These studies provide insights into general patterns and tendencies on why there are least favorite kink choices, rather than conclusive evidence about why certain women prefer submission in relationships. There hasn’t been a lot of research on Kink/BDSM topics due to stigmas around the sex industry and sexuality as a whole in society.
Preferences within relationships are influenced by a lot of factors, including personal experiences, cultural norms, and individual desires. This is why we can never typecast any gender into one box or another based on studies. There will always be exceptions to every rule when it comes to sexual identity.
The best way to approach these topics is to have open, honest, and up front conversations about what your turn ons are and what your hard no’s are. Never assume that someone is one way or another even if they may “look” more submissive than domme. This doesn’t mean anything unless you have learned about them personally.

While some studies have explored the dynamics of power and dominance within relationships, always approach the topic with caution. Preferences within relationships are highly individualistic, influenced by a variety of factors, and cannot be generalized to all women. Open communication, consent, and respect remain fundamental in establishing healthy and fulfilling relationships.