The Top 10 Things Arousr Members Want from Chat hosts Online

Welcome, Chathosts and those who may be interested in sending in an application to work with us on our platform. We have asked our members to share what their likes and dislikes are when it comes to using Arousr. Some of these results may not be what you expect from an adult entertainment site which is why it’s become paramount for us to share our findings with you.

We highly encourage you to take these data points and apply it as your new sexting bible.These tips will greatly impact your earning potential as a Chathost. Your ability to be flexible, compassionate and empathetic to the members you make connections with will make your experience as a host all that much more worthwhile and rewarding. 

The main goal of all hosts is just that, you are hosting a guest in your own private chat room for a finite amount of time. Your time is being exchanged for credits/time spent together. Treat each member as someone you want to make a good first impression on so they will have a reason to return and be hosted by you again and again in the future. Let’s get into the key things to avoid first before we outline what works best.

Top 10 Things Members Do Not Want from Hosts

  • Short text replies (5 words or less/predictable questions) to messages: This is seen as spamming or draining the member for their credits. It turns them off completely from exploring their fantasies
  • Slow to respond to text messages: The golden rule is to reply to the members text within 30 seconds or less. This keeps the conversation flowing on both sides and keeps both parties engaged
  • Only Pushing Content Sales via text/video/phone: No one likes to feel pressured/forced to spend more than what they originally agreed on in a chat. Content is excellent to have but please remember that on Arousr your content sales will come organically after your connection is made with each member.

  • Begging for Tips text/video/phone: Unlike your standard cam sites, Arousr does not run on tip based performance shows. Our services provide deeper than surface level connections for our Members. You are rewarded in your ability to connect with each member on a one on one basis
  • Ghosted: This means you stop replying to an open chat session. If you need to go then simply close to chat. You’re not being forced to chat with anyone. 
  • Not engaging: People can tell when you are only half way engaged or not at all. It’s very easy to lose interest when there’s a lack of effort coming from a host. If you’re not ready to give 100% to someone then you should long on at a better time for you when you can have a great time and be interested in being here.
  • Shows nothing on Video Chat: When you are on a video chat it’s up to you what you decide to reveal/not. However, keep in mind, our members expect to be entertained in some way/shape/form even if you’re not nude. Again, this also comes down to being engaged.
  • Never asked me what I’m into: It’s not only about what you do, it’s also about what the member wants. In order to have a great session together you will need to find out more about what the member likes first. Ask them questions, do not assume you are doing what they want beforehand. One size does not fit all.
  • No eye contact on Video Chat: Eye contact is one of the most important and intimate parts about human to human interaction. It’s something a lot of people shy away from but it’s the single most engaging way to make someone feel closer to you. Which is why our members enjoy eye contact (even if you cannot see them).
  • Background Noise/Too many distractions: Background noise should be kept at a minimum. Loud music, street noise, etc… can be a major turn off or distraction not only for the members but also the host. If your music is louder than your voice then it is too loud.

Now that you’re fully equipped with the “Do Not List” let’s take a look at what our members really want from your sessions together. It’s not very complicated and more than likely a whole lot more simplistic of an approach than you may be expecting. Read on below for our list of Do’s on our platform.

Top 10 Things Members Do Want from Hosts

  • Responsiveness: Replying to all incoming chat requests promptly (20 seconds or less).
  • Playful/FriendlyPolite: This is the ultimate trifecta effect. When you can nail all three of these personality traits you will have better chats and so will the members.
  • Creative: Mix things up, feel free to explore alternative games/forms of play to keep things interesting.
  • Good Listening Skills: Members are here to be heard/seen in ways they cannot find in their day to day lives. Hear them out, they don’t just always want to sex chat, they also love a friendly ear as well.
  • Asks what I want & follows through: Before making any assumptions, make sure you ask what they want first. This avoids a lot of time wasted chatting only to find out you don’t offer what they may be seeking.
  • Genuine/Engaging: Being open to making a good connection helps immensely with how engaging you are to be with.
  • A Good Voice: Everyone has a unique tone to their voice. Lean into what makes you unique. Your quirks could easily become someone else’s Kink.
  • Detailed/Descriptive/Dirty Mind: All the things you cannot say in your real life, you can say it here safely. Dig into your Erotic side and let your Fetish flag fly.
  • Kink Friendly/Sexually Open: Being closed/aprehensive to exploring all scopes of sexuality will limit your potential to unlock some very intersesting conversations. Be curious, and stay open. Remember, this is a role you get to play, so play it up and have fun with it!

Closing Thoughts

We truly hope this blog helped you realize your full potential as a Chathost and gave you actionable tips to apply to your sexting/texting/video chat repertoire. Everyone is incredibly unique and we don’t want anyone to try to fit into one box. We would like all of you to tap into what makes you unique and use that as your sexual superpower to enhance your confidence in your sexuality. Having such confidence/drive will automatically translate into more engaging and longer form chat sessions that you will be able to have with our members.

This will not only lead to you establishing more regular connections but it will make the time you spend with someone more enjoyable. Remember, your looks/age really do not matter when you let someone see the real you and vice versa. Our members’ polls do not lie, and they would much rather connect with you and have you connect with them/their needs than be all too concerned with tipping/pusing content sales.

Of course, having great quality images helps your profile stand out and will attract the right members to you. Presentation does matter. However, there is no one set standard of beauty to fit into. Having a great presentation paired with your intellectual skills is the most paramount over all. 

You will become infinitely more/less attractive based on what you say and how you say it on Arousr. These words are ones you could also apply to your life.