I Have Sex Dreams about Other Men. Am I Gay?

Hi! I’m Elaine S. Turner, the Resident Sexologist for Arousr.com and don’t worry, I’m here to tell you that odds are your sex dreams about other men have nothing to do with your sexual orientation.

Sexuality and sexual orientation is a spectrum. Dr.Alfred Kinsey found that no one is really completely straight or completely gay, there’s a scale of zero to six and everyone falls somewhere along that spectrum. That doesn’t mean that you’re gay, it just means that you are sexually aware of irrelevant material. Same as your erections. They actually happen because your brain deduces that something is sexually relevant. Now, wherever you fall on that sexuality and orientation scale, that’s your business. But, your dreams don’t mean anything about your orientation unless you want them to.