Domme Sub or Switch? CrystalCoast from Arousr Describes her Interests

Am I a Domme Sub or Switch? A while ago I would have said that I was a switch, but I started to realize that even when I switched, I was still doing so in a very submissive way. Don’t get me wrong, if you tell me that you want me to be more dominant and you tell me to do X, Y, Z, I am happy to do that for you! But as far as my, um, kind of general leanings and personality, I definitely default more to submissive. So now I would say that I am a Sub who tops and topping is very different from Domming.

How Can You Best Define a “Top” and a “Bottom” in Relationships?

In BDSM relationships, the terms “top” and “bottom” are often used to describe the roles of the dominant and submissive partners, respectively. While the terms are commonly used in the BDSM community, they can also be applied to other types of sexual relationships. Understanding the difference between being a top and a bottom can help you identify your preferences and better communicate with your partners.

Being a Domme Can Be Rewarding

A top is typically the domme partner in a BDSM relationship. They are the ones who are in control, giving orders, and taking charge of the situation. Tops may use a variety of tools or techniques to exert their dominance, such as restraints, impact play, or verbal commands. Being a top can be a very rewarding experience for those who enjoy being in control, and it can also require a great deal of responsibility to ensure that the submissive partner is safe and comfortable throughout the scene.

Bottoms May Enjoy the Feeling of Vulnerability

On the other hand, a bottom is typically the submissive partner in a BDSM relationship. They are the ones who are being controlled, following orders, and surrendering control to the top. Bottoms may enjoy the feeling of vulnerability or surrendering control, and may also enjoy the physical sensations of impact play or other BDSM activities. Being a bottom can be a very fulfilling experience for those who enjoy submitting to their partner, but it also requires a great deal of trust in the top and clear communication to ensure that boundaries are respected.

Crystalcost is a Sub but She Loves the Top Positions

As CrystalCoast has pointed out she is a Sub. Meaning she is typically in the Bottom position. However, what’s unique about this case is that she can also get pleasure from giving pleasure in the Domme position while still being Submissive to her partner! As you can see, It’s all very unique to everyone.

Conclusion

The difference between being a top and a bottom is that a top is typically the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship, while a bottom is the submissive partner. Being a top can be a rewarding experience for those who enjoy being in control, while being a bottom can be fulfilling for those who enjoy submitting to their partner. It is important to recognize that being a top or bottom is not fixed, and individuals may enjoy switching between roles or exploring different aspects of their sexuality.
What describes you best? Top/Bottom? Let us know in the comments section below!