What Women Want Between the Sheets

Hi, I’m Shauna Harris, a Sexologist from Arousr.com.

I’m here today to discuss what women really want between the sheets. Let’s get into it. Women need to feel desired, and they need to feel wanted. According to sex educator Emily Nagoski, a context where a woman can trust asked her partner so profoundly that she can let go of control. That’s a context where she can feel safe inside her own body, and all bets are off.

Women need to feel safe. Women need their partner to understand what actually turns them on and off. Women want to feel confident, and they want their partner to exude confidence between the sheets as well. Foreplay is essential for women, and it exponentially increases their chance of orgasm.

Foreplay begins outside the bedroom with thoughtful efforts throughout the day. You could try flirting. Kind gestures just make her feel special and desired. No matter if you’ve been together for a short period of time or a long time. Sexting is also a really great way to incorporate fun and something exciting into the mix. And don’t rush penetration. Take your time. Explore her erogenous zones. Have a conversation, find out what turns her on, and do that appeal to all of her senses. Put on her favorite playlist. Light a candle.

Stay tuned for more kink education.