Kink in the Bedroom: Are You too Vanilla for Your Girlfriend?
Hi, I’m Gigi Engle. I’m a Sex Educator for Arousr and today we’re going to be talking about how to be a bit more kinky. If you are of the vanilla persuasion in this video you’ll learn why people are into BDSM and Kink and some really simple ways that you can start incorporating Kink into the bedroom.
So first of all, why are people into Kink? Actually, Kink and BDSM are very much some of the most popular fantasies that people have. According to research from Dr. Justin Lee Miller of over 4000 Americans, BDSM ranked number two on the most popular fantasies that people have. So if you’re interested in a BDSM fantasy or role play, trust me, you’re not weird. You’re totally normal and it’s actually really fun. So what are some fun and easy ways that you can incorporate Kink into the bedroom? I have a couple of great tips that I think will be great and helpful for you. So first of all, you want to get clear about what your fantasy is like. How do you see this plan playing out? How do you want it to manifest? Because once you have a pretty clear understanding of that, you can start to talk about it with your partner.
Which brings us to tip number two. Clear, honest and open communication with your partner is key to having successful Kink play. Invite them to bring their fantasies in as well because everybody deserves to explore in the way that they want to. Secondly, you want to go slowly. Be sure that you’re not rushing things. You’re not just jumping right into Kinkplay before you know what you’re doing. So you want to maybe practice tying knots, take a workshop because this play can be pretty intense and you want to know what you’re doing. And then lastly, and I think one of the most important things is to have a good time because this is play. It is adults having a good time together and it can’t be awkward and a little weird when you first start. But practice makes perfect. So, remember that this is play and enjoy yourself.
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