Are You Submissive in Your Relationship? Arousr Chat host Drop O Sunshine Advises

Hello everyone. I’m drop of Sunshine and I’m here with part three of our Q and A.

Are you submissive?

No, I am not submissive at all! I like to be dominant and I’m really dominant with the man. Umm, I like it when they do whatever I ask and I love when they are submissive.
This is the type of guy I like. I wanna be the boss!

How Do Submissive Men Become Attractive to Dominant Women?

In a relationship, there can be a variety of dynamics, including those where the man is submissive and the woman is dominant. For those men who identify as submissive, there are several ways to serve their dominant partners and make the relationship more fulfilling. Being a submissive male in no way takes away from your masculinity or desirability as many Pro Domme’s will tell you in the BDSM community.  Here are some ways that submissive men (subs) can serve dominant (Domme) women in relationships:

1. Serve and obey

One of the most important ways that submissive men can serve their dominant partners is by following their commands and desires. This can mean anything from performing household chores to engaging in BDSM activities. Submissive men must be willing to put the needs and desires of their dominant partners first and be eager to please them.

2. Communicate openly

Communication is essential in any relationship, but it’s especially important in a dynamic where one partner is dominant and the other is submissive. Submissive men must be able to communicate their desires and boundaries openly and honestly with their dominant partners. It’s crucial to establish clear expectations and limits to ensure a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

3. Show gratitude

Dominant women often invest a lot of time and energy into their relationships and deserve appreciation and recognition. Submissive men can show gratitude by expressing their thanks and admiration for their partners’ efforts. Small gestures like bringing her a cup of tea or writing a love letter can go a long way in showing appreciation for her role in the relationship.

Here are three specific ways that Submissive men can become attractive to Dominant women:

1. Confidence

While submissive men are willing to submit to their partners, it’s important for them to maintain a level of confidence and self-assuredness. Dominant women are often attracted to men who know what they want and are confident in themselves, even if they are willing to submit in a relationship.

2. Willingness to learn

Submissive men who are willing to learn and grow within the relationship are often seen as attractive to dominant women. Being open to new experiences and willing to try new things can make for a fulfilling and dynamic relationship.

3. Honesty

Honesty is key in any relationship, but it’s especially important in a dynamic where one partner is dominant and the other is submissive. Submissive men who are honest and upfront about their desires and boundaries are often more attractive to dominant women. Trust is essential in any relationship, and honesty helps to establish a foundation of trust between partners.

Submissive men can serve dominant women in relationships by being obedient, communicating openly, and showing gratitude. To become attractive to dominant women, submissive men should maintain confidence, be willing to learn and grow, and be honest about their desires and boundaries. By following these tips, submissive men can build strong, fulfilling relationships with their dominant partners.