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Do you keep this job secret, or do you have friends or partners that know you're an Arousr host?

04 Feb 2026
I keep it a secret, I'm a whore here and a lady in society, dear. Hidden is much better. Not everyone is open-minded to hot, virtual sex. But I love it.
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Smythville 11 Feb 2026 I keep a fairly low profile, but the few people who do know that I host are pretty supportive. Having people who know I genuinely enjoy connecting has been part of the fantasy all along
pmogamat8 11 Feb 2026 can i give you the best experience then??
tighta55 11 Feb 2026 Hi Gabryela hit me with some of that virtual sex and I’ll let the not so open minded people what there missing
nbor2323 11 Feb 2026 Yes same ilove it
yjbb 10 Feb 2026 I do too
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08 Feb 2026
Friends and family know that I work in the cam world.I've never hidden it, I don't see why I should hide it, especially since I'm the one who pays my bills...mmmm.
03 Feb 2026
That’s a really thoughtful question. For me, it’s something I keep mostly private — not out of shame, just because it’s personal and not everyone understands this kind of work. I like having a clear boundary between this space and my everyday life so I can be fully present here. That said, I’m very comfortable with what I do. It’s about connection, confidence, and creating a space where people can relax and be themselves — and I take that seriously. What made you curious about that?
03 Feb 2026
My closest friends know that I'm on Arousr, but it's not something I tell everyone. I had a partner who knew I was on this app, but we are no longer together.
09 Feb 2026
The truth is, I'm bad at lying, so everyone in my inner circle knows. It doesn't bother me at all; getting paid to have orgasms is wonderful. It only makes finding a partner difficult, which is why I'm single :(
09 Feb 2026
Most people in my life know what I do! I love to provide company, have fun and help people explore their fantasies so I would never feel ashamed of it!
08 Feb 2026
Absolutely not a secret ! It isn’t anything that I am even remotely ashamed of. Anyone who means anything to me in my life are completely supportive - in fact, my best friend says “I couldn’t think of something more perfect for you.”
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07 Feb 2026
Yes, my family, close friends, and former partner know what I do on the app. They respect what I do and also say that I’m not harming anyone. It’s a different industry, but a necessary one that isn’t widely accepted by others
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06 Feb 2026
No one knows that I do it I like to keep it a secret so no one will know my spicy and flirtatious side. It’s funny that no one knows your secret life, do you want to tell me your secrets? 😏
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05 Feb 2026
No partner, just me. My close friends know about it and love that I enjoy it, so they fully support me. I keep it selective—I enjoy the secrecy a lot
05 Feb 2026
My partner and most of my friends know about this job I’m quite proud of it and it’s something I’m good at and I enjoy my self they say if you find a job you like you’ll never have to work another days again <3
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05 Feb 2026
Yes alot of my partners and friends know I'm on Arousr! in fact they insist that I show off my tits to horny men jerking off because it makes men want to call me and chat with me! I get so many sexy kinky customers~ I love people knowing I'm an Arousr host!
04 Feb 2026
I don’t keep this job secret. I keep it separate from other things I do for a living. It’s a business in its own lane for a certain audience. Friends and family and or any potential partners I may have all know that I am Jill of all traits
04 Feb 2026
My partner knows and is perfectly fine with it. A couple of family members and a few close friends know; they find it intriguing and like hearing about my adventures. My tax man only knows it’s “online consulting” :D
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04 Feb 2026
good question! I’d say both. People who know me well know that I’m an Arousr host. My partners usually know as well, if it feels important and relevant. I don’t usually tell strangers though, at least not right away ;)
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needie13 18 Feb 2026 Markie. New here could u point me.in the right direction.? Thanku
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04 Feb 2026
I have told my family and my ex partner knows I am a host. I love doing this and I get a kick out of spending time with gorgeous guys like yourself. When I am online I am always happy to chat! X
04 Feb 2026
I've told my female friends that I'm a host here, and my male friends know too; sometimes they fantasize about having a really hot time but they haven't dared to do it yet.
04 Feb 2026
Hello, some of my friends knows about my job x
04 Feb 2026
I’m very open about what I do. My close friends and people I trust know I’m an Arousr host and they are very supportive. I believe in being authentic and living my truth without shame.
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04 Feb 2026
kind of both. I tell most people I'm a chat based communications consultant. Technically not a lie! and looks like I have professional certifications. But close friends know I'm an Arousr host
04 Feb 2026
I made the decision not to hide anything about what I do on the internet. All my family members, friends, and people I’ve dated know about what I do online ;D
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04 Feb 2026
Hello im Moon! I actually use this app to meet new people. Talking freely about fantasies and experiences is fun and exciting! 😍 Why are you here? Tell me! ❤️❤️❤️
03 Feb 2026
I don’t tell many people about what I do here. A few friends know I can be naughty online, but it’s mostly my secret. I kind of enjoy the thrill of knowing that you’re one of the very few who get to see this side of me
03 Feb 2026
Because of the stigma and fear of being judged and being rejected l keep it private, I only tell people that I am chatting with lonely people online. It's not really a job to be ashamed of just that people are not that open-minded.
03 Feb 2026
Arousr is my sweet sweet secret. A place where I can be myself, share my deepest kinks and laugh geniunely unfiltered. We all have pieces that we do not show on society, and here we are totally free. Come explore with me ;)
03 Feb 2026
The most important people to me know, that's what's important. If the rest of my friends or family find out, I don't care about their opinion one bit.
03 Feb 2026
My family doesn't know, because they're very conservative. Arousr awakens an eccentric side in us, even a dirty and perverse one. It's a delicious secret. But it's great to share it with friends and acquaintances, depending on the situation. Being able to joke around, change opinions, and talk about controversial subjects is a lot of fun.
03 Feb 2026
There's no reason for it to be a secret; I've been a professional dominatrix for a decade and even have courses published in the field. It would be impossible to hide something I love and that's part of my daily life. And you? Where do you use the app?
03 Feb 2026
Hello mi babe, mmmm yes My best friends know, it's something private that we keep hidden among the girls. For exemple this is mi situation about this . 😋💕👸🏼
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03 Feb 2026
I am very open about my life in general. Most of my friends have jobs very similar to this one. My partners are very supportive and encouraging about what I do. Some even find it sexy!
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