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I'm looking to sext with a woman who will trained me to be a good submissive boy. I want to learn the step by step guide on how to be a good obedient boy.

07 Aug 2025
"Mmm… you crave to be molded into the perfect obedient boy? I like the sound of that. But I don’t give my attention lightly — you’ll have to earn it. Obedience starts with respect, patience, and a willingness to surrender completely to my rules. I don’t need to shout or punish… not unless you give me reason to. If you’re serious, you’ll show me with how you speak, how you follow my lead, and how you never forget who’s in control here. I guide slowly, with precision — every step carefully chosen
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plastoboy 25 Aug 2025 Wanna try me I am a cool boy
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10 Aug 2025
The first step is to accept the inevitability that with the correct training, you will only orgasm when I say so. I have to be wet and horny to allow that, and when I am, you will submit to my demands. We're going to have a great time!
10 Aug 2025
The first step is to message or call me so i can get to know u a bit better and also need to know about your limits or things u wouldnt do. Then we take it from there training u to be a good boy for me.
07 Aug 2025
Hey there xo mmm I absolutely love a good slutty well behaved boy ;) and I’m sure plenty of girls here would agree. I wonder if you have what it takes to become one …
10 Aug 2025
I love a good obedient boy so much. A boy who tends to himself, our home, and my needs. Complying to my requests and always obeying will earn him great praise. Though I am a softie so failure is usually repremanded with cold shoulder or verbal scolding until you've sufficiently atoned.
09 Aug 2025
Hi there, submissive boy. Many of us here at Arousr are dominant. Check out some of the host profiles here; you'll see that there are dominatrixes who can teach you how to be a good boy. I promise you won't regret it!
09 Aug 2025
So you are a good submissive whore for me, I like you to be obedient so if I am going to train you to be the best here and all the girls prefer you Let's do it on video chat if you want to keep having fun.
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09 Aug 2025
Looks like you came to the right place. Not only will you be properly trained to be my good boy but you will occasionally be rewarded for your obedience. So step one message the goddess and start your training be a good boy or else your already in the running to being punished
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07 Aug 2025
Are you sure you know what you’re asking, pet? If you crave dominance and to be right by a real woman on how to be a good lil boy.. then there are certain steps you need to take. Ask yourself if you’re truly willing to give yourself up and take full direction.. and if the answer is yes? Hehe I would train the shit out of you and get off on it.
07 Aug 2025
I believe I am exactly what you're looking for then, pet. I am FemDom Humiliatrix who loves training subservient little toys 🖤 Sub training is one of my favorite things to do, especially if I get to have a little laugh out of it too.
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07 Aug 2025
I would love to have you under my command and for you to obey my orders. What will happen if you don't? You will have a penance, although I assure you I won't hurt you. It will be delightfully painful. You just have to agree, and I will be your master.
07 Aug 2025
Mmm, not only is that not weird—it's actually a big turn-on for many women here 😈. If you're craving to be trained, there are dominant ladies who would love to take you under their control and teach you how to obey, serve, and beg properly. Step by step, from how to address your Mistress… to how to edge, worship, and submit like a good boy. Just be respectful, open, and ready to learn—obedience starts with listening. Are you ready to kneel? 💋🖤
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07 Aug 2025
I’d love to sext with you and train you to become the perfect submissive boy. Obedience starts with listening — every word I say becomes your command. I’ll guide you step by step: how to kneel properly, how to speak only when allowed, how to ask for permission to touch yourself. You’ll learn to serve, to please, to wait, and to crave my approval. I’ll correct you when you're wrong, reward you when you're good, and remind you who you belong to. You'll become more disciplined, more eager to obey,
07 Aug 2025
You came to the right place and asked the right person. I'm here to teach everything about being a good Submissive boy. And during practice, I would have to tell you to do something and you must obey me. Are you ready?
07 Aug 2025
I can help you be the obedient little boy I know you can be…with the proper guidance and discipline of course 🙃 I’ll make sure to be very detailed and demanding. You’ll never have to fuss what I want or how I want it when I’m down with you. You’ll be my personal little cock slave ready to do my biding and please me without limitations
07 Aug 2025
Oh… so you're here because you want to learn how to be a good boy for me? I love it when someone gives themselves to me with that mix of curiosity, desire, and the hunger to obey. Let me warn you right away: it’s not just about doing what I say… being submissive means surrendering your attention, your body, and your need to please me completely." "You want a step-by-step guide? Good… listen carefully. First rule: when I speak, you listen. You don’t interrupt, you don’t hesitate, and you definitely don’t get ahead of yourself. Because a good boy needs direction… and I’m here to give you every command you need to improve." "Second step: I want you to learn to read me. If I tell you to speak, you speak. If I tell you to be quiet, you thank me. Because silence can be obedience too. And if you ever don’t understand an order, you ask — respectfully: 'How can I serve you better?'" "Third step… your body. Your body belongs to me when we’re together. Your hands, your lips, your breath… . . .
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Oh… so you're here because you want to learn how to be a good boy for me? I love it when someone gives themselves to me with that mix of curiosity, desire, and the hunger to obey. Let me warn you right away: it’s not just about doing what I say… being submissive means surrendering your attention, your body, and your need to please me completely." "You want a step-by-step guide? Good… listen carefully. First rule: when I speak, you listen. You don’t interrupt, you don’t hesitate, and you definitely don’t get ahead of yourself. Because a good boy needs direction… and I’m here to give you every command you need to improve." "Second step: I want you to learn to read me. If I tell you to speak, you speak. If I tell you to be quiet, you thank me. Because silence can be obedience too. And if you ever don’t understand an order, you ask — respectfully: 'How can I serve you better?'" "Third step… your body. Your body belongs to me when we’re together. Your hands, your lips, your breath… everything moves to the rhythm I set. Want to touch yourself? Only if I allow it. Want to moan? You ask me first. Because every bit of your pleasure is a gift that only I get to give you." "And finally… the attitude. A good boy doesn’t beg, doesn’t demand, doesn’t doubt. He waits, listens, and acts with the devotion of someone who knows he's being trained by a woman who does not tolerate mediocrity. I don’t train just anyone… only those who truly want to learn how to serve." "Still there, with that alert mind and those urges building inside you? Perfect. You’re ready for your first task. Write to me how you’re feeling right now… no lies, no filters. I want to know exactly which part of you is trembling to please me
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07 Aug 2025
Hey come into my room And I’m gonna guide you step by step how to become a perfect submissive boy for mommy. So don’t lose your time and just click me 😀
07 Aug 2025
have you ever been in dom/sub dynamic before? training requires commitment. from both parties. are you sure you're ready? you're well informed and think you can handle it? I won't waste my time if you're not ready to listen. I have very little tolerance for boys who make me repeat myself. are you going to make me repeat myself or can you follow the rules like a good boy?
07 Aug 2025
I’m looking for a man who’s eager to be trained into a perfectly obedient submissive. I’ll guide you step by step—strict, sensual, and fully in control.
07 Aug 2025
To sext with a woman who will train you to be a good submissive, you'll want to set a clear, respectful, and consensual tone from the start. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to initiate and engage in sexting with the goal of learning to be a good, obedient submissive: Introduction and Consent: Start by clearly stating your intentions. For example, "Hi, I'm interested in exploring a submissive role and would love to sext with you to learn more about how to be a good submissive. Is that something you're comfortable with?" Establish Boundaries: Discuss any boundaries or limits you both have. This ensures that both of you feel safe and respected. For instance, "What are your hard and soft limits? I want to make sure we're both comfortable with what we're doing." Role-Playing and Scenario Setting: Begin by setting up a scenario that fits your dynamic. For example, "Imagine I'm your obedient servant, ready to follow your every command. What would you like me to do first?" Fo . . .
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To sext with a woman who will train you to be a good submissive, you'll want to set a clear, respectful, and consensual tone from the start. Here’s a step-by-step guide on how to initiate and engage in sexting with the goal of learning to be a good, obedient submissive: Introduction and Consent: Start by clearly stating your intentions. For example, "Hi, I'm interested in exploring a submissive role and would love to sext with you to learn more about how to be a good submissive. Is that something you're comfortable with?" Establish Boundaries: Discuss any boundaries or limits you both have. This ensures that both of you feel safe and respected. For instance, "What are your hard and soft limits? I want to make sure we're both comfortable with what we're doing." Role-Playing and Scenario Setting: Begin by setting up a scenario that fits your dynamic. For example, "Imagine I'm your obedient servant, ready to follow your every command. What would you like me to do first?" Follow Her Lead: Let her guide the conversation. Ask her what she expects from you and how you can please her. For instance, "How can I serve you today? What do you want me to do?" Describe Your Actions: Be detailed in your responses. Describe your actions and thoughts as if she were there with you. For example, "I'm on my knees, waiting for your next command. My heart is racing with anticipation, wondering what you'll ask of me next." Ask for Feedback: Regularly ask for her feedback to ensure you're meeting her expectations. For instance, "Am I pleasing you? Is there anything you'd like me to change or do differently?" Explore Different Scenarios: Try out different scenarios to see what works best for both of you. This could include service scenarios, impact play, or sensory deprivation. For example, "Would you like me to imagine I'm tied up, waiting for your touch?" Practice Obedience: Show your willingness to obey her commands immediately and without question. For instance, if she tells you to describe how you're feeling, respond promptly and honestly. Express Gratitude: Thank her for her guidance and patience. For example, "Thank you for teaching me. I'm so grateful for your patience and direction." End on a Positive Note: Conclude the sexting session by expressing your eagerness to continue learning and serving her. For instance, "I can't wait for our next session. Thank you for this incredible experience."
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07 Aug 2025
I will train you, but you won’t be on here ever again looking for another woman to train you. I will be the only one you listen to, and if you don’t follow all of my directions, there will be hell to pay.
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07 Aug 2025
Mmm, now that’s what I like to hear… a boy ready to be molded into my perfect little submissive. You want step-by-step? Good. Because I don’t tolerate lazy, half-trained slaves. First lesson: Obedience begins with silence and attention. When I speak, you listen. When I command, you obey. No hesitation. No backtalk. Got it, boy?
07 Aug 2025
Mmm yes Id liked you to be my obedient submissive boy! Follow my lead and don’t miss any step… I want a clean and perfect performance or you will be punished! Yes I could be your mistress hopeless dog!
07 Aug 2025
Oh? You want to be trained, hmm? 👀 That means you’re ready to listen, obey, and please without hesitation. Let’s start simple—strip for me, no questions asked. Then maybe, just maybe, I’ll give you your first lesson in being the obedient boy you claim you want to be. Are you ready to follow every command without hesitation?”
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07 Aug 2025
I’ll teach you how to be an obedient good boy. You better listen and do exactly as I say or you will be punished. You do exactly as I say, you will be rewarded.
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07 Aug 2025
Mmm, good boy energy already turning me on… If you really want to please, start by listening. Obey without hesitation. Keep your eyes down, speak only when told. Touch yourself only when I say so. Crave control, beg for permission. Show me devotion in every move. Let me mold you into the perfect little submissive. Ready to be trained, baby?
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07 Aug 2025
Here I am ready to be your guide and I hope you also guide me I want to know how to please you and who better to do it than me giving you instructions and helping you to be a good boy not only with me but also with the other girls on the site kisses 😘😊
07 Aug 2025
Long time dominatrix here who loves training good boys who serve no matter what .. approach me only if you are ready to lose all control of your senses
07 Aug 2025
The best training comes from soon just as much as it comes from listening. I love training new good boys to please me, to put themselves second and focus on their Domme
07 Aug 2025
Oh, you want to be taught how to please, don’t you? I can show you exactly how a good submissive boy should behave. You’ll learn to follow my commands, worship my words, and crave my approval. Tell me all the ways you want to serve me
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