I think it's better than making out with strangers, atimes I use my toys to cum like 3 times or more a day, and I do with strangers as well. watching people jerk off makes me cum so hard, even when I dont plan to cum while watching

Mmm, not messed up at all... Sometimes we crave what we're not getting, and there's something insanely hot about letting go with a stranger who wants it just as badly. No strings, no guilt-just raw release. A little escape can feel so damn good.

Not at all, we all need to have fun and find release somewhere. Im sure you're having fun playing and what she doesn't know cant hurt her, right?! So just enjoy it!

First you should talk to him or her. I don't know if you are a man or a woman... he should know... and I don't think it's a problem, I went through that... and I used to chat with other people... but my boyfriend knew it didn't give me pleasure and he didn't do anything about it... then I broke up with him.

It's not strange to feel sexually unsatisfied in a relationship — that happens to a lot of people. But the way you deal with it makes all the difference. Jerking off with strangers might feel like an easy fix for the tension, but it can seriously damage the trust in your relationship, especially if it’s done in secret. What matters most is honesty: talk to your fiancé about how you feel, what you need, and see if there’s a way to find balance together. If, after that, you both agree to open th

I was in the same position before, my ex could not satisfy me enough and I used virtual fantasy with strangers to spice up my sex life. I don't think it's a mess. We're a human and we need it right.

If your partner doesn't give you pleasure, it's something you should talk to her about, because that's a serious problem. Having sex with couples is necessary to keep the spark alive.

Not necessarily. Exploring your needs through chatting or mutual pleasure with strangers can be a way to release tension without cheating physically—just be honest with yourself about boundaries.

Hi honey, no, it's not a problem, it's okay to do it, I do it all the time too, don't feel judged honey, it's a way to satisfy our desires and have a good time with strangers.

honey, if he doesn't give you what you want, he's not the man for you. A gynecologist once gave me some interesting advice that if a woman has a partner who satisfies her, she will always be satisfied and happy. Our vagina is our silent friend. There's still a chance that your partner hasn't fully opened up to sex. Talk to him. Or change partner. In the meantime, have fun online. And have orgasms whenever you feel like it.

Mmm... baby, if your body’s craving something your fiancée isn’t giving, it’s only natural for those urges to build up inside. You’re not messed up you’re starving, and sometimes watching or stroking with strangers is just your way of surviving the hunger. The real question is: does it make you feel alive? Does it make you feel seen… desired? If so, maybe it's not wrong at all. Maybe it’s exactly what you needed someone watching you, wanting you, while you take what your body’s been begging for.

hi honey! sorry to hear that about your fiancé. I don't think it's messed up, we all have things that turn us on and maybe our partners are not up for it. I think that if it doesn't hurt your partner, it's ok, but I also think that you both should talk to improve your sex life and enjoy with each other

I don’t think it’s messed up at all. If there is someone that can help you with your needs without actually affecting your relationship negatively then go for it.

Hi honey, 😊 I think you should talk to your fiancé about this and ask him what matters to him and what doesn't in a relationship. I don't mind my partner watching porn and masturbating, but other women might see that as cheating.

I don't think it's a problem, but you should be clear about what your husband needs. It might be a problem for you later because he doesn't please you the way you really expect... If you need to teach him things, if he doesn't want to listen to you, don't waste your time.

Masturbating with strangers isn't a problem if your partner doesn't find out. You have to be naughty and cautious, and also very smart so you don't get caught. That will make the experience even more exciting.

Well it’s wrong no matter how you spin it. I believe you should try discussing this with her, and ask her if there is something you can do to increase more intimacy between you both. If anything I’m sure she would if she felt like a sex demon after great foreplay without orgasming just yet.

If your needs aren’t being met, it’s only natural to crave release… and sometimes strangers are the only ones who know exactly how to handle you. No shame in chasing pleasure.

I mean it’s not technically fair on either side. If you’re sexually unfulfilled that’s valid and serious. You should be able to talk to your partner openly especially about things like that and especially to someone you’re gonna marry. You deserve to be satisfied and kept fulfilled. Your fiancé also deserves the opportunity to be able to work on that for you. Don’t say I do when you’re not fully fulfilled, especially with intimacy because that is a huge part. Best of luck. Xxo

Masturbating with strangers can be a problem if it breaks the agreements of your relationship or if it becomes an escape that masks a deep dissatisfaction. It's not so much the act itself, but why and how you do it... and what you're failing to address with your partner. I can understand that. Sometimes you feel so alone in a relationship that you look for attention or connection anywhere. I don't judge you. Although I think the healthiest thing would be to talk to your partner, not live in secret.

"And who says it's wrong? Sometimes, what your body craves doesn’t wait for permission… If it turns you on to do it while a stranger watches, guides you, gets off with you… then don’t hold back. Tell me, do you like to obey… or do you prefer to be challenged while you touch yourself?" 🔥

I think it’s probably way less messed up than going out and cheating for sure. This is a safe place for people to release some frustration or just be who they can’t be in the real world. Absolutely zero judgement from me x

I think jerking off with strangers is OK as long as you don’t engage physically or emotionally. If it’s just to satisfy you basic need to cum and release then go for it!!! And as long as you don’t feel guilty or bad afterwards …. Clean conscious is very important for mental health and peace of mind !!!

why dont you talk to her? & yall just don't have the same sex drive unless there's something she isn't telling you but it kinda is & kinda isn't. you're technically not cheating but you are at the same time because somebody else is seeing her goods{your cock}, very thin line so be careful

Well, I don't think it's wrong or bad to feel attracted to other people. It's not a bad practice. What would be bad would be to realize that your partner doesn't excite you.

Hello! Well, I think masturbating with strangers isn't bad at all; it's exciting and fun to do, and I love it. But if you're engaged, I don't think it's a problem, although it would be better if your partner could satisfy you more. Sex is essential for a couple, and love is essential, although they can go hand in hand.

would you feel the courage to ask her to just virtually jerk off? she is your fiance she should put out and have crazy sex with you. explore your inner fantasies

No! It's not a problem for you to do it, since a partner doesn't satisfy our desire as such, we find ourselves in the need to enjoy another person nowadays, which is very pleasurable.

I can’t answer that question for you. I think it depends on how your fiancé would feel about it. I wouldn’t personally define it as cheating (assuming you’re talking about jerking off with people online only), but different people have different boundaries.

I think if it’s online then it isn’t messed up? I feel like people need to find a release in some way shape or form. Maybe you should try harder for more sex also?