Go out and find someone together. Or let her pick him out for you. Set the tone of the evening and have fun TOGETHER! If she thinks he's hot trust me she will find watching you please that sexy man beyond enticing

hi darling! like everything, it's all about consent. I think that if she keeps an open mind and you have good communication you could get to that. I'm always considering my partner's pleasure, so you could talk to her and ask her if she's willing to do it, and how she'd want to start, maybe you could incorporate another man (without sucking his dick at first) and see how it works, how she feels about it, and if she likes it, go for it. Express your desires both, and tell me how it goes!

The first step to getting your wife on board is expressing the desire, and you have done this. What may persuade her is talking about it while you are having sex. She will see how turned on you are and many women get turned on when you do! Ask her to choose a male friend. Her choosing who will be in your mouth can make her feel more secure and not left out!

If you've already expressed that this is your fetish, you can find out what hers is so you can each fulfill the other's desire. You can also invent a role-playing game where you're two strangers who have desires and fantasies to fulfill. That always works.

That all depends on how she reacted to your expressed desire. Did she seem interested? Curious? Disgusted? Upset? When adding in new things to your sexual relationship it is important to have open conversations and if play with other people is a hard limit for her this may not be something you get to participate in unfortunately. If she is open to the idea talk more about it, explain exactly what you are picturing and come up some guild lines for both of you to follow.

Opening up those desires with your wife after 18 years together takes courage and a deep trust that’s beautiful to see. The key is communication sprinkled with patience and lots of teasing. Share your fantasies gently, let her see how much it excites you, and invite her to guide the journey. When she feels part of the adventure, encouraging and directing you comes naturally. It’s all about creating a space where both of you can explore safely and seductively.

Expressing a desire is the first step so good work there. I would start by suggesting watching cuckhold or gay porn similar to the scene you're asking her to reenact with you. Hopefully she will get a good understanding of what you want and feel more comfortable doing it for you.

I believe that communication is the basis of everything. If you have already expressed this desire, it means that you have good communication with her. Bring up the subject again, ask her what she thinks about it, carefully evaluate what she says. Little by little, open up more and see what she thinks. If she doesn't agree, I believe that you should perhaps rethink your desire. Is it worth giving up a long-lasting marriage for a desire? I would say no. But that is up to you to decide. However, s

You should talk to her and invite her to join in on this fun, because if you're curious, what's the harm in trying it out, right? I think you should go deep into it with her and have fun.

Well I do have an idea which would involve easing your wife into it maybe. turn it into a fun sexy erotic experience with her maybe watch some BJ gay porn with hair together to see how she likes it. or maybe you could invest in a strap on and she could be the first person you could give a blowjob to, and you can practice on her before moving onto other man and that could turn into something fun and sexy for both of you.

It would just depend on.the relationship. You should never push someone to do something they're uncomfortable with- just bring it up again, it may not be an easy convo but it's better to know where you stand!

If you have already expressed a desire maybe its time to make the fantasy a reality. Is kink already a part of your life? if so this is a good in to suggest it. If not I recommend a MMF threesome and see where that takes you

Ease her into it since you’ve already discussed your interest so I’d start small with erotic but not too brutal porn of bisexual 3sums while you eat her out or during play time. She’ll notice how much it turns you on and she’ll be turned on as well

Be honest with her, believe that if she agrees to fulfill your desires and fetishes, it will be the same way that you fulfill hers. Life is short and should be lived intensely, go ahead!

I think if you really want this, you need to talk to your partner about it more seriously. You may have mentioned it to her, but she may not have taken it seriously. You may need to convince her that you really, really want this. This will ensure that she accepts your wishes or rejects them if necessary.

You've already mentioned that you've expressed your desire, which is important. The next step is to explore her reaction. Ask her openly how she feels about this. For example, what boundaries she might have. Is she surprised, unsure, curious, or interested? Tell her it's not pressure, it's just a desire you trust her enough to share.

Communication and delivery is everything. Sit her down and make time to talk about it. This shouldn't be a rushed conversation. Maybe talk about exploring some of her fantasies as well. Just try to be as open and transparent as possible.

First of all, hot 🔥. Second, how did she respond? If she seemed open, then I would have some conversations further exploring why it’s hot to you, and whether it tickles any of her fancies as well. You could try sucking on a dildo and see how that feels for you both! Just remember to not try to coerce her into something she doesn’t want.

Just communicate. Have a discussion with her about wanting to do this and wanting to have her input and maybe getting some tips from her. Make her feel safe and confident that you don’t want to cheat but actually want her to be there and participate, watch,etc. Communication and trust is always key. Honesty also. Just lay it all out there and let her know you would like to explore this but have no desire to leave,cheat,etc.

Keep talking with her about it! Ask her what she’s open to. See if she’s willing to try dirty talking about it when you’re being intimate and try that first! Give it some time and tell her how much doing this together would mean to you. If she’s convicted, have a forthright conversation about boundaries and what you’ll both need to feel good before, during, and after the experience.

That’s such a hot fantasy, and you’re already on the right path by being open about your desires. I’d suggest starting with soft, curious conversations—ask her how she feels about watching you explore new experiences, and bring it up during intimate, playful moments when you're both relaxed. Share a fantasy scenario and ask what turns her on about it. Maybe even watch some bi-curious content together to spark her imagination. Let her guide the pace, and show her how much it excites you when she takes control. With time and trust, she might love the idea of directing the show.

If you want her on board, you’ve gotta turn it into a turn-on — not a confession. Don’t drop it heavy. Start with a fantasy game: ‘Wanna hear something filthy I imagined today?’ Then tell her how hot it would be if she watched you on your knees for another man… not because you want him, but because the idea of her owning the moment turns you on. Make her the center of the kink — the one in control. She might be more into it than you think

It would be a great idea for you to call your wife to have a threesome you two share the same dick and suck it together with lots of saliva By inviting her to a threesome you can express your desire

Mmm, I love that you’ve already shared your desire… that’s bold and so sexy. To bring her in, make her feel like the star—tell her she’s not just watching, she’s guiding you, teasing you, owning the moment. Let her know how much it turns you on to please her while exploring your own fantasies. Start with talk. Let her imagination warm up with yours… and see where it takes you.

Approach her subtly, lean in close when you talk to her, look her in the eyes, and occasionally touch her hand. Allow her to feel your skin and discover its texture. The occasional touch increases desire and sets the stage for a passionate encounter. Become the king of subtle teasing. Let your wife see that you enjoy sucking that guy's cock, the one you've both already talked to.

And if it's something you want, you just have to do it. Also, if your wife supports it, what's stopping you? You're free to do it as long as it doesn't cause problems in your marriage, that is, as long as you and your wife agree.

It's completely normal to have curiosities or fantasies, and the important thing is that you feel comfortable talking about them. The most important thing in any relationship is open communication and mutual respect. If you decide to explore these feelings, be sure to discuss them with your partner clearly and honestly. It's essential that both of you agree and feel comfortable with the decisions you make together.

My first long term relationship, my partner told me when he was drunk that he had sucked his friends cock. He was so embarrassed and it didn’t bother me at all. I am not sure how comfortable you feel about talking sexual desires. But, my first bit of advice would be to tell her a story about your friend that has done it and see how she responds, but remember if you tell her in a way that you seem calm and interested she might respond differently.

Reflect on Her Initial Response Since you’ve already shared your interest, reflect on how she reacted. Was she curious, hesitant, neutral, or dismissive? Understanding her baseline feelings will help you tailor your approach. If she seemed open or curious, you can build on that. If she was uncertain or resistant, you’ll want to proceed slowly, addressing her concerns with empathy

Maybe offer her something in return, or maybe let her have the man when you are done with him. You have to turn this into something that she would get something out of. Make her excited about wanting to do this with you. Make her think it's what SHE wants to see