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I'm in a Sexless Marriage. Do you have tips for me?

BrandyAlexandra 16 Feb 2025
Hmm my narriage before also started as sexless marriage. So based on my own experience I can say to keep trying but of course start with open communication-then go to different environment and try to do more physical touch but hey if all fails then try every different new things including using this site for both or own pleasure .
Samay 15 Feb 2025
do different things, maybe they are falling into the routine and they need to try other things, try new things with your partner, new places where they can enjoy sex but something different something new, ask her what she would like to do in privacy and you also tell her that you would like to do and you will see how everything changes and they start to enjoy sex more and do it more often
SydneySav 15 Feb 2025
First of all I'm very sorry to hear that Hun! Sex is such an important part of healthy relationships and I honestly spend so much time chatting with men about this topic! I have lots of things that I think could help but it's more of a back and forth convo so I can ask you some questions. Reach out to me so we can chat- I would love to try and help xo
Gissellelover 15 Feb 2025
That happens when you lose the connection with your partner. Analyze yourself, try to enjoy spending your time on other things that make you feel vigorous. Casual sex helps a lot to feel adrenaline and self-esteem.
tulum 15 Feb 2025
I advise you to try to cover your sexual needs outside of it, we all need that, sex is to be explored and enjoyed, I would love to accompany you in that, we will make all your fantasies come true.
ThaiDao 15 Feb 2025
Thats a difficult question to answer, without knowing fully, the situation you are in, how long you have been married, sexual orientation of you both etc, so, difficult to give real helpful tips. I would love to chat with you, and find out the full situation, so i could give you tips to get the sex going, if possible
Ravenna 15 Feb 2025
Sexless marriage is an end road for me, ( if sexless is because of a health problem, you stay! “for good or for worse “ ) make sure you tried everything before giving up , spice it up, try new fantasies, bring toys into the bedroom, pretend you are both someone new untill you find each other fantasies,
ChloeVieira 15 Feb 2025
A sexless marriage can be challenging but communication is essential. Try to understand the reasons, rekindle emotional communication and explore new forms of intimacy.
Sofiadxx 15 Feb 2025
I think you should have a conversation about it to see why sex is not happening! If it’s mutual .. try and fix it together. I would think about looking elsewhere, but have that conversation first! If your partner is okay with it, come and find out with me!
xSoniaa 15 Feb 2025
Well considerating I dont know much about your marriage or about u as a person, firstly I'd say to talk to her about this. I need to know more about this for example the reason why u guys don have sex anymore,if something happened, or simply if she's doing it with someone else. I think u can find a way for both of u to be satisfied somehow x
Ayummi 15 Feb 2025
What do you mean by a sexless marriage??? How long have you been suffering like this?? Lol I think that cheating in this case is unavoidable, but if you want I can do the work that your wife doesn't do
Giliana 15 Feb 2025
Of course I have fabulous advice, Generally, women have a hard time saying their sexual fantasies while having sex, It's a very good idea that you communicate with your partner telling her that you would like to know what she thinks when she's fucking you, That gives more freedom and you already know that in sex games everything is valid, Fuck, it's just that they are the dirtiest fantasies, it's something that all couples should do
Sakura 15 Feb 2025
Yes, my advice would be to first establish a good conversation with your partner, like what are their fantasies that they would like to experience, also wearing very sexy lingerie, or role playing could work.
MillaRose 15 Feb 2025
Whisper your desires and needs into your partner’s ear as your bodies touch and connect. Plan a night of lust, with candles, soft music, and an intimate dinner, ending in a night of unbridled fucking. Talk about your deepest desires and allow yourselves to get lost in them. Dedicate yourselves to touching, kissing, making love, fucking, without rushing or distraction
Nikita 15 Feb 2025
Talk about your fantasies, about the things you would like to do, play games, role-play. Maybe you have a female in heat at home and you don't know how to take advantage of it.
Brendasun 15 Feb 2025
Try to innovate... A trip to a place you really want to go... Create moments together, explore your fantasies, buy her new lingerie... these are some options that can help a lot
Emilyred 15 Feb 2025
Have you tried talking to your other half about what possible issues there might be between you- maybe try something different to what you normally would do, maybe experiment a bit in the bedroom , spice it up a bit just obviously don’t go full out extrem unless you know that’s a possibility they would like
Carol 15 Feb 2025
Of course, women are very connected to their actions throughout the day, so start with kisses but without sex, this will provoke her and make her feel loved...
GothicHunter 15 Feb 2025
The sex in a couple it’s all about communication. You have to know what turns her on, and the best way to know that it’s to ask her. You can tell her about what you like too. If you think it’s too embarrassing or that she won’t approve it… you can always come to me. I don’t judge, and I want to make you feel good.
RileyRyot 15 Feb 2025
in my experience it could be two reasons (or both at the same time). the sex is not pleasing her so she lost interest in it. have an open conversation what she needs to be pleased. and when a woman doesn't feel an emotional connection anymore, her interest in sex is gonna decrease or completely vanish. how about you treat her for a few weeks like you treated her in the beginning. remember her why she fell in love with you and she probably gonna develop sexual feelings for you again.
CassieCass 15 Feb 2025
I can give you some tips of course One is pick your moment to talk the second one is to be honest with yourself and each other and the thirt one to try a new activity togheter ! I hope gonna help you , kiss.
Sugarbaby 15 Feb 2025
It is possible to change your current reality by pretending like you have what you desire. If you no longer find your woman attractive you are in the right place to spice things up.
Redrose 15 Feb 2025
I’d recommend spicing things up with a new toy or some new lingerie! A little variety and effort can go a long way when it comes to intimacy! Even something as simple as a back massage gets me in the mood!
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Afroditi 15 Feb 2025
If you want to stay in this marriage I believe you should put romance and sexiness back in your life. This can be done if both parties want to. I have 1 TIP. Erotism starts outside the bedroom so pay more attention and make her/feel attractive and sexy in daily life. For example, if you see the other is tired, offer a foot massage instead of thinking 'Oh he/she is always tired or he/she doesn't want me..' It is very erotic to feel that the other cares about you.
AngieBrand 15 Feb 2025
My advice, based on my beliefs, is that marriage is sacred and if your wife doesn't want to have sex, respect that. I will accommodate you, let's have fun in different ways honey.
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Petala 15 Feb 2025
If you want to fulfill your needs without your partner knowing, there are some discreet alternatives. Masturbation is a simple and natural way to relieve tension. Exploring content that stimulates your imagination can also help keep your desire under control. Physical activities and sports are great ways to expend energy and release endorphins, which may reduce frustration. Staying socially active by going out with friends or investing in hobbies can help shift your focus away from sexual dissa
MissIndira 15 Feb 2025
If you secretly visit affectionate girls who can satisfy your needs, at the same time go to therapy with your partner and seek help to get the passion back
yureka 15 Feb 2025
Baby, you have to find out how to play with your wife, experiment with things, buy toys and all that helps them to play is delicious and even more so with your partner.
MidnightNurse 15 Feb 2025
talk about it, resentment can cause that a lot, but just sit and have an open communication, try to reignite if you wish, unless you have eyes for another that meets up with your sexual needs
GodessAngel 15 Feb 2025
I'll give you the same advice I gave myself, since I'm in the same situation as you. I love my boyfriend, he's great in everything else, but he's terrible in bed. He doesn't like sex... Don't stop living your sexuality because of this. Aroush is here to help you enjoy yourself and be happy while maintaining your marriage without sex but having sex
WildPassion 15 Feb 2025
1. Identify the Root Cause • Is it due to stress, medical issues, past trauma, emotional disconnection, or lifestyle changes? • Openly but gently discuss what might be contributing to the situation. 2. Communicate Openly & Honestly • Express your feelings without blame. Use “I” statements like “I miss feeling close to you” instead of “You never want intimacy.”
LayneXoXo 15 Feb 2025
I do, woman love being touched in places that aren’t sexual sometimes. Try rubbing her feet, legs. Try being intimate without sexualizing it and without expecting anything in return. You’ll be surprised how far that can go.
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