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Are you leaning more dominant or submissive ?

12 Jun 2025
I’m a switch so I actually enjoy both. Sometimes I love being dominated, but other times I enjoy being in control so just depends on what mood I’m in.
11 Jun 2025
I am totally dominating, dominant. I hate any attitude that tries to dominate me, if you leave my bio, profile here, you must understand i love Bdsm pratics snd have my slaves
13 Jun 2025
I really like both things, I enjoy being dominant and submitting a submissive or sissy, and I also like being submitted and being fucked by an alpha male.
13 Jun 2025
I’m more of a switch I would say. I become very submissive for dominant aggressive men, but men who are more beta bring out my dominant. This girl likes being used like a slut and if you aren’t capable then I can find another use for you.
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13 Jun 2025
Honestly, both. Depending on the person I'm in a relationship with, I can be very submissive, dominant, or a switch. For some reason, in my personal life, I'm a little more likely to be submissive. Online, I tend to be more of a dominant; many submissive men come to me for my strong, muscular profile.
12 Jun 2025
I can have both inclinations. I am a very playful woman, therefore I love role play games of all types. My natural tendency Is to tell Man how I like to see and feel their masculinity.
12 Jun 2025
> “Lately I’ve been leaning more toward the submissive side… I like to obey, to be told what to do, to feel used, dominated… to give myself over without resisting. But only with someone who truly knows how to control me, who earns my submission and knows how to play with my mind and body as if they were his own. Could you handle that?”
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12 Jun 2025
I am leaning more towards being the dominant one. I like being in control and seeing the pain and pleasure in your face while I fuck you. and have the say of when I want your cum on me
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12 Jun 2025
I'd definitely lean more towards being submissive but in saying that I'm always happy to switch things up and try being dominant, I think I'd do quite well x
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12 Jun 2025
Dominant, of course. I like to take control, give orders, and see how far a man is willing to go to please me. Would you know how to obey? There's no doubt about it: I love having power. And I love even more seeing how submissives melt with a simple word from me. Are you one of them? I've always been dominant... but not with just anyone. A good submissive knows how to awaken my most intense side: with respect, devotion, and discipline. Do you think you could do it? It amuses me to see how a man surrenders when he finds someone who truly knows how to guide him. Are you looking for direction or just attention?
12 Jun 2025
Hey! I absolutely love both sides but I lean more into submissive. I do like to control lots of things in my day to day life so I really enjoy being played around from time to time😜 Losing control feels soo nice, but so is being in control. What side are you on?😏
12 Jun 2025
Im more dominant, I enjoy being in control. I like seeing a sub look up at my titties, waiting for a command. The need my subs hunger for is ME, they want to be consumed and at the same time protected.
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12 Jun 2025
Pure domination! I can not stand anyone who wan't to boss me around, if you try, you will meet all my demons. I like submissive men, so cute and easy to manipulate. Turns me on to play with them. Do you want to become my new toy?
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12 Jun 2025
I enjoy both however it’s easier for me to be a sub. I perform well in both areas and both turn me on but being dominated and taken against my will subdued and restricted really gets me worked up
12 Jun 2025
Mmm… I’d say I lean toward being switchy—I like to feel out the energy, the tension, the desire. Sometimes I love taking control and watching someone melt under my touch… and other times, I crave being undone completely. It’s all about the connection and the slow burn.
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12 Jun 2025
I prefer submission. When it's a big, well-endowed man, I love being fragile before him and being dominated at his whim. If it's a smaller man, I like being the one who dominates, letting him feel who's his woman.
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11 Jun 2025
I prefer being a dominant woman. I absolutely hate men who want to be dominant with me. I'm not a submissive woman and I never will be. I like things done the way I say.
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11 Jun 2025
I have always been submissive as I like being strangled and thrown around but I would like to explore dominant. I love trying new things and i am Into pretty much anything.
11 Jun 2025
I'm definitely a switch, which sounds like a cop out to the answer but I love being able to switch between roles! I'm naturally very feisty and dominant and successful but I do crave someone else taking the lead at times.... and don't get me started on decision fatigue!
11 Jun 2025
Definitely more dominant. I love taking control — telling you exactly what to do, how to do it, and watching you squirm as you try to keep up. There’s something so satisfying about having someone eager to please, knowing they crave my approval… and my punishment when they don’t behave
11 Jun 2025
Both things are fine for me, although I prefer to be the dominant one in sexual relations, sometimes I like to be dominated. I can say that it is something that turns me on a little more if I am tied up or gagged.
11 Jun 2025
I love being dominant it gives me the power over weak men. with that being said men these days are loving the lifestyle and that's what I am interested in. So what direction are you in? or heading towards
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11 Jun 2025
"Dominant or submissive? I can be both... There are times when I love being in control: making you kneel, making you moan for my approval, making you pay for every second of my attention. It turns me on to watch you unravel at the mere command. But there are also nights when I give myself completely... I look under your gaze, spread my legs, and let you use me, dominate me, make me yours until there's nothing left of me but pleasure. It's all up to you... Are you the kind of person who makes me take control or makes me beg for more?"
11 Jun 2025
I’m a dominant person for sure, I love pay pigs, they are my favourite but in sex it really just depends sometimes I wanna submit more times I want to be dominant though xo
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11 Jun 2025
I'm in the middle but often I'm super assertive & now more domme leaning rather than my initial switching. I enjoy it on this side & love to be in control more often than not
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11 Jun 2025
I'd say I lean more submissive... I love being part of the game, teasing, tempting... but what really gets me is feeling someone else's control, like I'm being slowly guided and claimed. There's something incredibly exciting about giving in, knowing I'm in good hands. I love to please, to obey... especially when it feels like I have no choice. Does that make you want to take control of me?
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11 Jun 2025
It depends on my mood but generally I’m more submissive. I like the man to be in control. Use me as a toy. Love to see hid a man enjoys me. What do you prefer?
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11 Jun 2025
I am naturally a dominant . Even tho there are many levels of dominant I enjoy evey single one of them . From telling a man to write on his dick my injitial to tell him how to kiss me and more … kiss 😘
11 Jun 2025
I like giving up control and being used… but once I’ve had enough, I flip it....take over, ride hard, and make you beg. 😉 I crave both sides of the game 😈
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11 Jun 2025
I am switch so I am both dominant and submissive. It is fun to switch it up as if the man is alpha I’ll submit. If he’s beta then I’ll rule him. It depends on the person.
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