{"id":16512,"date":"2022-05-09T16:56:55","date_gmt":"2022-05-09T16:56:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/?p=16512"},"modified":"2022-10-23T18:53:11","modified_gmt":"2022-10-23T18:53:11","slug":"what-are-humiliation-degradation-kinks-sex-chat-with-elaine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/what-are-humiliation-degradation-kinks-sex-chat-with-elaine\/","title":{"rendered":"What are Humiliation &#038; Degradation Kinks? &#8211; Sex Chat with Elaine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:956.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><h1><b>What are Humiliation &amp; Degradation Kinks?<\/b><\/h1>\n<p><iframe title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NUSGdH7PN-w\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Someone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">spits<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">during<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sex<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">calls<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cumslut,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">does<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">turn<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on?<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">maybe<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">get<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">turned<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">idea<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doing<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">someone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">else.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Either<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">way,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">might<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">humiliation<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kink.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Elaine S.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Turner,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resident<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sexologist<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arousr.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">today<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">want<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tell<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">little<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">bit<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">about<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliation,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kinks<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fetishes.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Humiliation<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">play<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">masochistic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experience<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">integral<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">part<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lot<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kink<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">play.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">when<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you&#8217;re<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">made<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">feel<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ashamed<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">embarrassed<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">self<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conscious<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">based<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">way<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">they<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">treat<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">study<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finland<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">showed<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">up<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">70%<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sadomasochistic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">practitioners<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">engaged<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">verbal<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">humiliation<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">regularly.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">many,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experience.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">examples<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">used<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">piece<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">human<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">furniture,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">used<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">human<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">toilet,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">even<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">called<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">degrading<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">names.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">so<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">common?<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">two<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">main<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">theories.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">first<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">represents<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">learned<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">behavior,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">like<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">were<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">insulted<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">humiliated<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">during<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">development,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">somehow<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">got<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tied<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">with<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexual<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">identity.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">way,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">way<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">regain<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">power<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">from<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">initial<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">traumatic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experience<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">doing<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">controlled<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">setting<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adult.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">alternative<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">serves<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escape<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">who<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">day<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">day<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">life.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">itself,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">though,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">completely<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tuned<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">with<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">us<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kink<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">education.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Follow<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">us<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">always<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">find<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">out<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arousr.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sources:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kinkly.com\/definition\/545\/erotic-humiliation\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.kinkly.com\/definition\/545\/erotic-humiliation<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.fetish.com\/humiliation\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/www.fetish.com\/humiliation\/<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":16513,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[211],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-16512","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-education"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16512","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16512"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16512\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":16515,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16512\/revisions\/16515"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16513"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16512"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16512"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16512"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}