{"id":16501,"date":"2022-05-09T15:13:02","date_gmt":"2022-05-09T15:13:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/?p=16501"},"modified":"2022-10-23T18:53:28","modified_gmt":"2022-10-23T18:53:28","slug":"what-is-cnc-kink-sex-chat-with-elaine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/what-is-cnc-kink-sex-chat-with-elaine\/","title":{"rendered":"What is CNC Kink? &#8211; Sex Chat with Elaine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:956.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><h1>What is CNC Kink?<\/h1>\n<p><iframe title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/vohoda8AZP0\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">get<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">turned<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">idea<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">your<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">partner<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">not<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fully<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consenting?<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hi,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Elaine S.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Turner,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Resident Sexologist<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arousr.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">today<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">want<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">talk<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">about<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">something<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">really<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">common.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consensual,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">non-consenting sex.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">idea<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aroused<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">by<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">someone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">forcing<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">themselves<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">upon<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">forcing<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yourself<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">upon<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">someone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">else<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexually.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">secret<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">here<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">everyone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">actually<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consenting.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Between<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">30%<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">60%<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">females<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reported<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">having<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">rape<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasies<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">or<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">being<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">taken<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">advantage<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">sexually<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">their<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasies.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">this<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">power<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exchange<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">between<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">two<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">people.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">key<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">here<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">that<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">there<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">is<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">difference<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">between<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasy<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reality.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">reality,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">everyone<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">consents<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasy<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">act.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">person<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">say<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">no,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">but<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">they<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mean<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">yes.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">why<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">we<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">safe<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">words<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">such<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">erotic<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experience.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rape<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasies<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">are<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">different.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rape<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fantasies<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">refer<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">one<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">specific<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">act<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">versus<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">refer<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pretty<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">much<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">all<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">the<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">dynamics<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">lot<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\/s (Dom\/sub)<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">relationships.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">CNC<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">other<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">common<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">aspects<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">of<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">BDSM<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">have<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">been<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">linked<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">personality<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">characteristics<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">such<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">as<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">excitement,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">seeking,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">extraversion,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">openness<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">to<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">experiences.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">if<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you&#8217;re<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">kinky,<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">it<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">might<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">be<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">extrovert.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stay<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tuned<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">for<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kink<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Education.<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Follow<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">us<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">you<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">can<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">always find<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">out<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">more<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">on<\/span> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arousr.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sources:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/au\/blog\/women-who-stray\/202102\/consensual-non-consent-exploring-challenging-boundaries\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Psychology today<\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/domsubliving.com\/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">https:\/\/domsubliving.com\/5-things-about-consensual-non-consent\/<\/span><\/a><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" 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