{"id":16275,"date":"2022-03-17T14:06:47","date_gmt":"2022-03-17T14:06:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/?p=16275"},"modified":"2023-08-13T22:19:05","modified_gmt":"2023-08-13T22:19:05","slug":"top-3-reasons-men-send-dick-pics-sex-chat-with-elaine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/top-3-reasons-men-send-dick-pics-sex-chat-with-elaine\/","title":{"rendered":"Top 3 Reasons Men Send Dick Pics &#8211; Sex Chat with Elaine"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:956.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:20px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-order-medium:0;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-order-small:0;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-column-has-shadow fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\" style=\"--awb-text-transform:none;\"><h1>Top 3 Reasons Men send Dick Pics<\/h1>\n<p><iframe title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Wt2ijL3d5c4\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<h3>You keep sending dick pics even though no one asked for them. Have you ever asked why?<\/h3>\n<p>Hi, I&#8217;m Elaine Turner and I&#8217;m the sexologist for arousr. And I want to tell you a little bit about why science things you are sending dick pics.\u00a0 The Journal of Sex research did a study on over 1000 Men of photographic exhibitionism, aka sending nudes. And in that study, they found three core reasons why men send dick pics.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Transactional<\/strong> &#8211; The first one, probably not a surprise was transactional. A little bit of I&#8217;ll show you mine, you show me yours, hoping for nude from someone else.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Partner Hunting<\/strong> &#8211; The second one is partner hunting. So hoping that by showing your penis you&#8217;re more likely to get laid.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reassurance<\/strong> &#8211; The third one was some kind of reassurance they the person sending the dick pic wanted to feel desired by the other person and we&#8217;re seeking some sort of positive reinforcement. In this study, 18% of the men said they got some kind of personal gratification usually sexual from sending these dick pics.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>10%<\/strong> of the men agreed with the following statement : &#8220;<em>Sending dick pics gives me a feeling of control over the person I&#8217;ve sent it to&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>6%<\/strong> agreed with this statement: <em>&#8220;I feel a sense of dislike towards women and sending dick pics is satisfying&#8221;.\u00a0 <\/em>Well, the minority of men did it for shock and awe, it&#8217;s still a pretty heavy percentage to consider.<\/p>\n<p>Now the fact of the matter is there&#8217;s nothing sexier than consent. So make sure you&#8217;re playing with the right person. Or you ask someone for a dictate, then you know it&#8217;s wanted. If you want to send dick pics and you don&#8217;t know where to go check out some of our hosts on arousr there&#8217;s plenty to do see and have fun with there. And also don&#8217;t forget to keep following arousr for further kink education. I&#8217;ll see you soon.<\/p>\n<p>References<\/p>\n<p>https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/full\/10.1080\/00224499.2019.1639036<\/p>\n<div class=\"video-shortcode\">\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"jNk34XsJsE\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.psypost.org\/2019\/09\/new-psychology-research-reveals-mens-motives-for-sending-unsolicited-dick-pics-54420\">New psychology research reveals men&#8217;s motives for sending unsolicited dick pics<\/a><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;New psychology research reveals men&#8217;s motives for sending unsolicited dick pics&#8221; &#8212; PsyPost\" src=\"https:\/\/www.psypost.org\/2019\/09\/new-psychology-research-reveals-mens-motives-for-sending-unsolicited-dick-pics-54420\/embed#?secret=432Q72LYc8#?secret=jNk34XsJsE\" data-secret=\"jNk34XsJsE\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":16293,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[211],"tags":[199,232],"class_list":["post-16275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-education","tag-nudes","tag-sext-chat"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/8"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16275"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":17428,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16275\/revisions\/17428"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/16293"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}