{"id":15848,"date":"2021-11-23T22:09:28","date_gmt":"2021-11-23T22:09:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/?p=15848"},"modified":"2025-03-25T12:00:10","modified_gmt":"2025-03-25T12:00:10","slug":"have-you-ever-fantasized-about-being-dominated-by-a-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/have-you-ever-fantasized-about-being-dominated-by-a-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"What is Femdom and why Men submit to a Dominatrix"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"fusion-fullwidth fullwidth-box fusion-builder-row-1 fusion-flex-container nonhundred-percent-fullwidth non-hundred-percent-height-scrolling\" style=\"--awb-border-radius-top-left:0px;--awb-border-radius-top-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-right:0px;--awb-border-radius-bottom-left:0px;--awb-flex-wrap:wrap;\" ><div class=\"fusion-builder-row fusion-row fusion-flex-align-items-flex-start fusion-flex-content-wrap\" style=\"max-width:956.8px;margin-left: calc(-4% \/ 2 );margin-right: calc(-4% \/ 2 );\"><div class=\"fusion-layout-column fusion_builder_column fusion-builder-column-0 fusion_builder_column_1_1 1_1 fusion-flex-column\" style=\"--awb-bg-size:cover;--awb-width-large:100%;--awb-margin-top-large:0px;--awb-spacing-right-large:1.92%;--awb-margin-bottom-large:0px;--awb-spacing-left-large:1.92%;--awb-width-medium:100%;--awb-spacing-right-medium:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-medium:1.92%;--awb-width-small:100%;--awb-spacing-right-small:1.92%;--awb-spacing-left-small:1.92%;\"><div class=\"fusion-column-wrapper fusion-flex-justify-content-flex-start fusion-content-layout-column\"><div class=\"fusion-text fusion-text-1\"><div style=\"padding:56.25% 0 0 0;position:relative;\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/608625211?h=36df37a31e&amp;badge=0&amp;autopause=0&amp;player_id=0&amp;app_id=58479\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"autoplay; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen style=\"position:absolute;top:0;left:0;width:100%;height:100%;\" title=\"QueenRoberta on Cuckolding\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<p><script src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/api\/player.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n<h1>What is Femdom and why Men submit to a Dominatrix<\/h1>\n<h3>Men have enjoyed worshipping Women for centuries. Whether that be chatting online or on their knees in a Dungeon, Female Domination is a very powerful kink that has been around since <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Phyllis_and_Aristotle\">Aristotle<\/a>.<\/h3>\n<p><em>Pictured above Arousr <a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/\">Chat<\/a> Host Queen Roberta: <a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/phone-sex-girls\/QueenRoberta\/\">Profile<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>You can see very early drawn depictions of a woman riding him through his courtyard. If a master visionary of his time eons ago knew how to give in to the power of females then he must have really been an intellectual.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><a href=\"#1\">What is Femdom according to Pop Culture<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#2\">How to find a Femdom<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"#3\">Safe Ways to Explore Being A Submissive<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15849 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/riding-through-courtyard.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"462\" height=\"512\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/riding-through-courtyard-200x222.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/riding-through-courtyard-271x300.jpeg 271w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/riding-through-courtyard-400x443.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/riding-through-courtyard.jpeg 462w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 462px) 100vw, 462px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>According to Aychsa White from The Link, Men who submit to Women do not get enough of a <a href=\"https:\/\/thelinknewspaper.ca\/article\/sex-editorial-sexually-submissive-men-have-something-to-say\">voice in society<\/a>. They are far too often seen as weak due to the fact that they enjoy being dominated and don\u2019t feed into the typical Alpha stereotypes. This could not be further from the truth and is an incredibly reductive way to see gender role reversal play. Let\u2019s dig into a little Dominatrix history today and let you be the judge as to whether or not you would be the perfect candidate to surrender complete control and submit to a Domme.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"1\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>What is Femdom according to Pop Culture<\/h3>\n<p>Females being worshipped as Domme\u2019s started showing up in popular films in the early 1960s but they have been recorded since ancient Egypt hieroglyphic depictions. How do we celebrate and glamorize people playing roles in modern-day? We make movies about them. Here are a few notable movie stars who have played a Dominatrix over the past few decades you probably remember.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_15850\" style=\"width: 522px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-15850\" class=\"wp-image-15850 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Ancient-Egypt-Hieroglphic-Depictions.jpeg\" alt=\"Turin Erotic Papyrus\" width=\"512\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Ancient-Egypt-Hieroglphic-Depictions-200x117.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Ancient-Egypt-Hieroglphic-Depictions-300x176.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Ancient-Egypt-Hieroglphic-Depictions-400x234.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Ancient-Egypt-Hieroglphic-Depictions.jpeg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-15850\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Turin_Erotic_Papyrus\">Turin Erotic Papyrus<\/a><\/p><\/div>\n<p>Barb Wire, released in 1996 features an international sex symbol of that era, Pamela Anderson. In this film, she plays a bounty hunter who during a scene poses as a Domme in order to capture a bad guy. Throughout the entire film, however, she is donning various skin-tight leather-clad outfits that harkens back to being a lifestyle Domme.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15851 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Jennifer-Tilly-Cult-Movie.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"475\" height=\"314\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Jennifer-Tilly-Cult-Movie-200x132.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Jennifer-Tilly-Cult-Movie-300x198.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Jennifer-Tilly-Cult-Movie-400x264.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Jennifer-Tilly-Cult-Movie.jpeg 475w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 475px) 100vw, 475px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Not long after Bride of Chucky was released in 1998 starring cult movie favorite Jennifer Tilly who plays Chucky\u2019s girlfriend. She dresses up in full domme corset and glove attire lures a man into her home to handcuff him to her bed.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15852 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Full-Domme-Corset-Abd-Glove-Attire.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"512\" height=\"342\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Full-Domme-Corset-Abd-Glove-Attire-200x134.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Full-Domme-Corset-Abd-Glove-Attire-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Full-Domme-Corset-Abd-Glove-Attire-400x267.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Full-Domme-Corset-Abd-Glove-Attire.jpeg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Then infamously in Mr. and Mrs. Smith in 2005, Angelina Jolie poses as a Dominatrix to gain access to a Saudi Sheek. In that scene, she is dressed up in full PVC and fishnet attire. It\u2019s one of the most re-watched scenes in that movie. Also, <a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/how-being-a-lifestyle-domme-transcends-into-day-to-day-life\/\">Not too far off from a recent real life story that was shared<\/a> when we had a chat with Fetish model\/Domme Masuimi Max about the subject of women being in control of Men.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15853 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Fetish-Model-Masuimi-Max-.jpeg\" alt=\"Being dominated is one of your passion?\" width=\"512\" height=\"359\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Fetish-Model-Masuimi-Max--200x140.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Fetish-Model-Masuimi-Max--300x210.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Fetish-Model-Masuimi-Max--400x280.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Fetish-Model-Masuimi-Max-.jpeg 512w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sex advocate Amber Rose has also been quoted stating that <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/kinky-celebrities\">she most enjoys toying with rich and powerful men<\/a> to make them submit to her feminine wiles.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15854 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Amber-Rose-2.jpeg\" alt=\"Do you visualize about being dominated?\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Amber-Rose-2-66x66.jpeg 66w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Amber-Rose-2-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Amber-Rose-2-200x200.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Amber-Rose-2.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><a name=\"2\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>How to find a Femdom<\/h3>\n<p>There may seemingly be too many options for you to choose from when it comes to finding someone to roleplay with online. The internet is a highly saturated place to be these days in any genre. However, there are a few key qualities one should look for before submitting to a Domme. This is a surefire way to make sure you are not trying to explore submission with someone whose heart really isn\u2019t into this kind of kink due to their lack of knowledge\/experience.<\/p>\n<p>Safe words &#8211; This is very important to establish before you get into any kink play. For Example: Pick a word such as \u201cRed\u201d and use that word whenever you feel that things are going past your comfort level. Establish your boundaries by always using this safeword between you and your Domme. Any experienced Domme is going to ask you this before you get into play of any sort.<\/p>\n<p>They Tell, They Don\u2019t Ask! &#8211; A real Domme will never ask you for permission or your advice. They will always be directing the scene you are in. This means you are giving up all control to her. You go where she tells you, you do as she says, without any excuses.<\/p>\n<p>Submissive training &#8211; When you make a mistake your Domme will punish you. She will not let you fall out of line and get away with it. Ever.<\/p>\n<p><a name=\"3\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Safe Ways to Explore Being a Submissive<\/h3>\n<p>The best way to start exploring a new kink is to start watching videos about it. Some of the movies listed above are great more PG ways to see if this may peak your interest without compromising your browser history. If you find that being submissive trigger you, in a good way, I highly suggest you delve a little bit deeper next into erotic stories. We have an excellent one a Chat Host Expert wrote recently about training her submissive. Reading Erotica helps you use your own imagination and not solely rely on hardcore porn sites\/images to be stimulated mentally. We all know that mental stimulation naturally leads to physical pleasure.<\/p>\n<p>Another excellent option after you\u2019ve read enough Erotica to make you hot and bothered is to <a href=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/\">Sext<\/a> anonymously. The fact that you don\u2019t have to see anyone when you&#8217;re new to exploring the kink world (or not so new) is a way for you to release any anxiety around it. You feel less put on the spot to act out orders and you can more quietly submit to them in your mind.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;re feeling bold and comfortable in your new role as a Submissive you can move into video chats from the safety, comfort, and discretion of your own home. There are now just as many perfectly qualified Internet Domme\u2019s as there are in real Dungeons these days.<\/p>\n<p><strong>About the Author: Femme Fatale<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Femme Fatale is the Media Manager, Brand Ambassador, and Writer for Arousr<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-15845 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/tif-branded-horizontal-hirez-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/tif-branded-horizontal-hirez-66x66.jpg 66w, https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/tif-branded-horizontal-hirez-150x150.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":15855,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[211],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-15848","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sex-education"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15848","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15848"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15848\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18014,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15848\/revisions\/18014"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/15855"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15848"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15848"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/arousr.com\/content\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15848"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}