Men Discuss Why Sissification Turns Them On

Hello Kinky friends! In our last post, we gave you a kink education on what exactly Sissification is and its origins as a male fetish within our society. Now that we have you up to speed on the dirty details around this fetish topic of the month we would like to share some of our Member’ opinions on what exactly about Sissification turns them on.

Here are two interviews below with our long-time Arousr members to gain some insight on this very unique fetish and how it relates to sexting as well as our takes on their answers.

Arousr Member: Anonexpres

Q: When and also, how did you discover you were into Sissification roleplay?
A: It began with a curious itch. I bought myself some clothes one day, wore them, and the rest is history.

Q: What is it about this fetish that turns you on personally?
A: I like the feel of the feminine fabric and how tight it feels against my skin.

Q: What is the most misunderstood thing about men like yourself who enjoy Sissification?
A: I’d have to say that people mistake “sissification” as an indication of a man’s willingness to feminize oneself (or to become transgender for some). While in some cases, that may prove true, wearing feminine clothing can be a fetish and a fetish alone.

Q: Do you prefer sexting about Sissification to playing it out in real life with a partner? Why?
A: I prefer to sext about it. I’m too ashamed to play out any sort of fantasy with another person.

Q: If you had to choose between panties/high heels which one would you pick?
A: Panties; High heels offer nothing to me besides sore feet and panties feel nice around my penis.

What stands out to us about Anonexpres’s interview is the fact that he prefers to sext during a Sissification roleplay session over real-life roleplay scenarios. We’ve noticed this trend among all the male members we interviewed about this kink. The fact that he himself feels shame around this subject, too much shame to actually have these conversations in his real-life shows us that creating a safe space for men to be more vulnerable with their kinks is incredibly important. When men are forced to repress their sexuality it only creates more underlying stress which ends up getting misdirected to other areas of their lives. Unfortunately, most men are not even aware of this. So many of life’s daily stresses can be alleviated when we have a healthy outlet to release them.

Would Sissification be more widely discussed and even (dare we say) mainstream if it wasn’t shamed by society? We think so! There are a lot more men than would like to admit that they are into this style of fetish play purely out of fear-based on societal judgment. Whether that be their colleagues at work or their partner in bed. Many men, solely due to personal/public scrutiny may never allow themselves to explore Sissification to see if it’s a kinky escape for them to get lost in for a little while. This probably stems from the fact that being a woman has not been seen as a strength for the past hundred decades. Therefore, a man wanting to dress up like a woman is seen as even weaker instead of being seen as a kind of hot!

Arousr Member: Wesley87

Q: When and also, how did you discover you were into Sissification roleplay?
A: A girl I once dated turned me on.

Q: Do you prefer sexting about Sissification to playing it out in real life with a partner? Why?
A: I prefer being with a real partner. The energy is just different having someone touching you, feeling them breathing on you, and whatnot

Q: If you had to choose between panties/high heels which one would you pick?
A: That’s a tough one, I’m kinda a big dude so I’ll probably break something in heels. Maybe panties then lol

We appreciate that Arousr member Wesley87 is brave enough to let his freak flag fly with his partners in real life. He had very little shame around this subject in our interview. Wesley comes across to us as your more typical Alpha male in his everyday real life. Yet, behind closed doors, he enjoys getting kinky and roleplaying by wearing women lingerie. We were happy to see how comfortable he was talking about the subject of Sissification with us.

Our Closing Thoughts on Sissification Roleplay

What we have noticed is that Sissification is inherently very unique to each one of its roleplayers. There is no set mold for the type of man who may be turned on by being feminized. Some are more masculine and seek an escape from their hetero-normative lifestyles. Other men fall more on the beta side and enjoy being pushed into submission by a strong female figure. However, neither of these things have anything to do with being gay or wanting to transition into a woman. It’s about feeling hot in women attire and taking a walk in a feminized shoe for a change of pace. Being a Sissy is a temporary mental state where a man can be a man, and release his masculine power to a woman. The clothing and other forms of dress that are more ladylike turn men on because it lets them know what it’s like to be a woman and there is absolutely nothing wrong/shameful with that.